WAYS TO STAY HAPPY

WAYS TO STAY HAPPY  

I am quite sure that many of you have confronted this question, the reason being that you are going through a state or phase of your life where things might seem going downhill as they sometimes will.

The most random and thought of answer is by staying positive but, maintaining that state forever is really not possible until you always have a reason for not being negative. Hence this is what it takes to be one of the happiest people in the world.

First, I would like to talk about a difference that might be unusual but understandable.

A difference between happiness and contentment

Happiness

This feeling is experienced when you get what you want in life. This emotion supports craving for more and more.

This emotion is really not permanent because sometimes you might not get what you want and that is what drives us into the state of being sad or depressed. Hence, the feeling of fulfilling your desires is known as happiness.

Contentment

 

This emotion means to be at peace or be satisfied with the present. If you are not at peace with what you achieved, it can be more difficult to work towards a better future. If you want peace of mind and positive attitude contentment is what you should practice.

I myself have learned to seek my happiness by limiting my useless or ambitious desires, rather than being sad or wasting my time on attempting to satisfy them. 

Therefore, if you want to be happy always appreciate what you have.

Moving onto some other suggestions to lead a joyous life.

Give yourself permission

Permission to be the person you want to be without worrying about others, permission to cry whenever you need to, permission to make mistakes, permission to be different, and to be happy.

Don't compare

Comparision to me seems like an act of violence to self.

Contended people no they are no better or less than some other person and sometimes its jot just you who made mistakes and weren't able to be as good as other people, its fate which does not give you the opportunity. So, always remember that sometimes or the other it happens that even hardworking people are not better than others as their fate does not allow them to be. 

Also, Every second you spend wishing you had someone else's life is a second spent wasting yours.

Don't be sad when you make mistakes

The greatest mistake is fearing you will make one, yes that is true besides that I can relate to it. I know the same is with you.

We fear we can make mistakes and as we do make one we tend to go into depression, and that's the extreme state of unhappiness as everything seems to go wrong. If you take it the other way there are numerous reasons to not hold a negative view for mistakes.

Missteps constrain us to investigate choices. They expect us to rethink an issue and think innovatively to discover or create different arrangements or approaches. They show us what doesn't work and urges us to make better approaches for speculation and doing.

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That  is all for today, I hope you lead a very happy life,

From  your blogger

Kashvi Luthra

regards.