All about REGRETS
Feeling regrets reminds us of our mistakes and usually, we don't make those mistakes again. They also help us learn about what we really want in life. We develop clarity on what things and outcomes we want to have. Sometimes it helps us to warn others doing the same mistake as us.
How does regret affect us?
Regrets can destroy or impede happiness as it causes us to feel sad, shame and sometimes even guilty for what we did.
Why is regret so painful?
They are painful because they make us blame ourselves for what we did. It becomes more hurtful when we have a sense of loss or sorrow.
The other reason for why it is so painful is that it makes us to think of we could change our decision or shouldn't have taken it in the first place as the consequence was not favorable.
"Never regret a day in your life as good days give you
happiness and bad days give you experience."
THE BIGGEST REGRETS IN LIFE
Working at the expense of family and friends and not being able to
pay attention to them.
Standing up to things that are not fair (such as bullies or mistreatment by family) because of fear and other such reasons.
Worrying very much about what others will think about me, that we leave our passion, the thing that we want to do and regret it later mostly on our deathbed.
Another cause why we are not able to fulfill our dreams is the lack of confidence. So, if this is one of those reasons holding you back, take a leap of faith and I do promise you will not regret it later.
you have written it very beautifully
ReplyDeleteSo no regrets that I have spent my time on reading this wonderful thought .
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